Although of course I may be curious as to the IRL individual who has given
me Puppet, to 'see' this person "INSERT Rname here" could
well destroy everything. IRL my lovers have usually been quite beautiful
or highly distinctive looking... for I am desperately attracted by sheer
physical beauty ... but this can be so perilous ... now I look for mind
as well as matter ... and am fortunate to find both in one person sometimes,
more often these days.