Although of course I may be curious as to the IRL individual who has given me Puppet, to 'see' this person "INSERT Rname here" could well destroy everything. IRL my lovers have usually been quite beautiful or highly distinctive looking... for I am desperately attracted by sheer physical beauty ... but this can be so perilous ... now I look for mind as well as matter ... and am fortunate to find both in one person sometimes, more often these days.